Thursday, September 9, 2010

Wisdom Thoughts

One of the more fascinating areas of Scripture that I thoroughly enjoyed was looking at the wisdom literature of the Old Testament. Typically, this involves Proverbs, Job, and Ecclesiastes. I think I enjoyed this unit so much because I didn't expect to enjoy it. I have always been one of those people who love the stories in Scripture and the character movement that takes place. Typically, I found the Psalms and Proverbs rather boring and would only ever really read the first chapters and last chapters of Job. That all changed and here is why...

I realized the path of learning practical wisdom in the Old Testament is a completely valid approach that helps to determine appropriate decisions. Add in the Holy Spirit, and the wisdom is heightened that much more (See 1 Corinthians 1 and 2 for more on the additional of the Holy Spirit to the process of Wisdom). The wisdom movement of the Old Testament is very simple and very practical, but I see very few people really dive into it. A wise person would do four things to come to a conclusion on any issue:
1. They would ponder the "good life" or as a Believe I ponder the "abundant life"
2. They would observe their own personal experiences
3. They would observe the experiences of others and the ages
4. They would make a conclusion

Understand that Proverbs is observational in nature. Many of the sayings are not absolute (although some are), but are observations using these four steps. Many Christians struggle with making decisions and determining the right thing to do when it isn't obvious in Scripture. Thus, this wisdom method is extremely helpful and when you throw the Holy Spirit on to that it makes it even better. To further elaborate I present to you this Scripture from Proverbs 26:

4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest you also be like him.
5 Answer a fool according to his folly,
Lest he be wise in his own eyes.

To the some this, would appear as a complete contradiction of advice. However, if we use our experience, the experience of others and make a conclusion we see that this advice is solid. In some instances, it would have been foolish of me to answer a fool because I would have looked like a fool. In other instances, I needed to step up a put down the foolish words spoken. My thought is that, this passage of Scripture is perfect because it encourages us to use the power of observation to determine what should be done in the situation.
If we all spent a bit more time observing and seeking to make wise decisions, then I think we would find the benefit of doing so rather quickly. True wisdom is having the foresight not to rely on hindsight.

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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Kingdom Conversation #1


I am beginning an episodic series called "Kingdom Conversation" in which different topics will be discussed and hopefully, new light will be shed on certain things. Pastor Jaman and myself have done this first one and will probably do more in the future, however, I would love to have any of you who would like to be a part of this to let me know. If there is something on your heart or something you would like to share, let me know and we can set a time to do that. I look forward to hearing your comments about this. Hope you are all having a great week and God bless!!

-PD

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Sunday, June 20, 2010

To Every Season

It is the middle of June and it is rather warm and humid outside. For some people, this is an awful time of year regarding the weather. The bugs are out, everything feels sticky, you sweat all the time, and sunburns are all around. Even though, I know all those things take place, I still love summer. I love the smell of BBQs in the distance, the sun popping up early in the morning and not leaving until later in the evening, swimming pools, working outside, youth camps, and cruising in a vehicle with the windows down and the radio blasting. Ah yes, it is a good time to be alive! Summer is truly my favorite season. But some of you are really into autumn and I appreciate that. I love the smell of tailgating, watching football, hay rides, the color of the leaves. It's all good, not quit my favorite, but a good second spot for me. Probably the reason for its downgrade from summer is that autumn reminds me that winter is fast approaching.
Winter is the season I despise the most. It's cold all the time, when its not cold its cold and snowy. I don't like snow. The sun comes up late in the morning and goes to bed in the late afternoon. You are inside constantly unless you enjoy freezing. Slick roads and constant shoveling make people weary. As soon as winter comes I am already ready for spring.
And so now we have Spring, I enjoy spring. Things get warmer, the bugs aren't out yet, and it smells nice outside. For me though, I have allergies for approximately 2 months every Spring, and it rains a bit more than I would like. Additionally, you can go from a day in the 60s to a day in the 30s with the snap of the fingers.
Ah yes, I love summer best... and yet...
God gave us four seasons with blessings in each season. We must cherish the blessings and deal with the work that goes with the season. Fall means raking, Winter means shoveling, Spring means planting, and Summer means mowing. There are favorites that I am sure we all have, but we must learn to be content in whatever season we are currently in. Winter gives me such an appreciation of summer. Don't curse the season that you are in, rather embrace the good elements of that season.

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Saturday, May 15, 2010

Overwhelmed

It is very interesting how God places things on our hearts, but doesn't necessarily remove the fear and/or stress involved. In fact, maybe if God has really laid something on our heart, it doesn't necessarily flow with the gift that is given. I'll use some aspects of my own life as an example...

1. Our church's mission is "willing to love; living to serve". I believe in it wholeheartedly and feel we need to reach out the the community regularly. However, these events stress me out more than anything. I think about them, worry about them, and always have a moment where I almost "break" because I can't stand the pressure anymore. But... I know we are called to do it, so I do it.

2. As a pastor it is my responsibility to build relationships with people. I do pretty good at this once I get to know somebody, but strangers absolutely terrify me. I always worry about what to say, how to say it, and feel that I am terrible at first impressions. I stressed out when I see someone in public that I kinda know, cause I don't know what to do. And yet, I know that I need to open up and be welcoming to those around me. It's what I am called to do.

3. I am terrified of memorization. I would dread having to recite memory verses or needing to memorize lines in a drama. Anything that requires me to memorize causes my gut to go into turmoil. I love preaching! And honestly, I memorize everything I say, but if I don't have the notes there then I become very nervous. I never did plays in high school or anything like that because the prospect of memorizing pages of lines sounded like a level of hell. And yet, for ministry's sake I have done quite a bit of memorizing, it's what I am called to do.

You know what areas of ministry don't make me nervous? Those areas that require little to no risk. Those areas that keep me from looking like a fool or making others feel like a fool. And yet... This is where I am called. It bothers me how many people I see never take risks because being comfortable is primary. If I rested in what was comfortable all the time, then I wouldn't be here in the first place. Consider this day if their is a risk worth taking because you feel called.

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Friday, April 23, 2010

Jaman's Rant

Let me warn you that I don't necessarily know if this is of God, but I think it might be and I want to talk about it more, so I am using this blog to work out my thoughts. I am going to list a bunch of different statements that float around in my mind and we will see if they come together somehow.

1. Jesus rebuked the the religious leaders way more than the worldly people.
2. If people aren't going to be led by the Holy Spirit, then at least use your brain and logically come to conclusions.
3. I cannot stand the hypocrisy of the two party system in the United States. Wrong is wrong and I wish believers would stand up and reject that which has the hint of being underhand or manipulative. Understand the correct side to be on is that which reflects Jesus Christ completely, not partly.
4. Believers should seek to unite with each other instead of tearing each other down.
5. Stop making generalizations based on your personal experiences, because you cannot stereotype entire groups to satisfy your need to be superior. You are biased because of your personal experiences and don't forget that.
6. Love people accurately, not to gain some selfish advantage.
7. Avoid foolish controversies or silly agendas that do nothing to express the Kingdom of God.

Think about some of those things, and let me know what you think or disagree with or even add to. thanks!

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Friday, April 2, 2010

Good Friday

As we celebrate the passion week, I find it difficult to really speak about much of anything. It's almost as if this week is set aside just to remember, not to add personally commentary, but to simply remember. So, as the sun shines down on us this Good Friday, let us simply remember that awful day that was also one of the best days.

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Thursday, March 25, 2010

Appreciation

Appreciation is one of those very simple things that we desire. Appreciation lets us know that we are doing something that matters enough for others to notice us. If you ask the majority of people if they truly feel appreciated, the answer is usually "no". Spouses feel unappreciated by their partners. Children can feel unappreciated by their parents. Parents can feel unappreciated by their children. Workers can feel unappreciated by co-workers and bosses. Pastors can feel unappreciated by people in the congregation. Members of the congregation can feel unappreciated by the pastor. So here is my advice to you if you don't feel appreciated...

Appreciate others. If you are waiting for some magical thing to happen where you suddenly are adequately appreciated, you are going to be in for a loss. Have you ever seen most people when the are appropriately appreciated? This flood of emotions comes out of them because the reality is they didn't feel appreciated for an amazing amount of time. I nearly broke down an cried when someone genuinely called me "an awesome pastor". I realized something, instead of waiting for others to appreciate me, how about I just spend lots of time appreciating others! We sit back and feel sorry for ourselves instead of stepping up and genuinely appreciating what others are doing. You might make their year!

Oh, and don't forget to accurately appreciate your Lord and Savior the way he deserves!

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Sunday, February 28, 2010

The Pain of Love

Love is one of the most misunderstood things in the world. God is one of the other most misunderstood things in the world. God is love; so this really isn't all that shocking. People associate love with a variety of emotions. Pain happens to be one of the emotions mentioned when referring to love. This makes perfect sense when I see the pain endured by Christ because of his great love for us.
I often wonder if the physical pain of the nails, the beatings, and the crown of thorns paled in comparison to the spiritual pain Jesus felt. In that one moment, Jesus bore the spiritual weight of the entire universe. And was it ever heavy with all the evil things in there. A choice was made by him to love us so much that he was willing to die to continue that love. He did not want to be separated from us. What amazes me is that he loved those who would choose to be separate from Him for all of eternity. Yet he agonizingly loved them anyways! He mentioned in one of his sermons that it is easy to love those who love you back; but there is something special to love your enemies. He said it and he did it!
This has been a week of pain for me. I have loved as accurately as I know how. I knew the pain would be great and quite honestly the only way for me to deal with that pain appropriately is to marvel at the love Christ showed me. Praise him for his painful love and thank you that I can painfully love others.

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Friday, January 29, 2010

Frustrating Times

Imagine that you had a disease that was ruining your life and eventually would end it. Imagine the pain, frustration, and sadness that would constantly take place. You've been to a few doctors here and there, but not many of them gave you any hope. Finally, a doctor steps in and informs you that he has cure to this disease. No pills would need to be taken and no major surgery would have to take place. Rather, one must choose to exercise and eat healthy each day. If that was done, then the person would no longer suffer from this disease. I would hope that you would choose to take the doctors advice. However, only 1 out of 10 people ever make a lifestyle change to prolong their life when faced with a life threatening illness. They would rather continue in the bad habits, then sacrifice to make better choices. It boggles the mind.
Unfortunately, I have found this same statistic in many Christian circles. Most people want God to do amazing things and radically transform their lives, but... not if they have to give up that "one" thing. I am so stinkin' tired of dealing with people not willing to give up the "one" thing! Seriously! Quit it! Just stop! I spend my life speaking the same life-breathing words that touched me in Scripture and yet that person will not let go of some of those sins. It boggles the mind.
*sigh* I want to get mad, but it just leads to being sad. When will people give up the darkness and embrace the light?

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Friday, January 22, 2010

Joy

Why are so many people miserable?

I get those who do not yet have a relationship with Christ or even believes He exists. I imagine I would be miserable too. In fact, many nonbelievers I meet at least act perfectly happy. But, I have found the vast majority are miserable and like I said, I get that.
I get those believers who are living out a sinful life. If I were giving God the middle finger each day, then I would be pretty miserable too. I get it, I definitely get it.
I get those believers who are suffering terrible tragedies in their lives. Sometimes you just weep and mourn because so much is going on around us. I get those people too.
So, to recap... I understand why nonbelievers, sinful believers, and suffering believers appear to be miserable. But what about the rest of em?

Ask yourself this day if you have a legitimate reason to be miserable. If not, perhaps more effort needs to be made to fix it. Pray to God, Surround Yourself with People Who Express Joy, and take comfort in God's sovereignty!

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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Fast: Day 6

Hunger pains no longer hit me. It's more the craving of something warm in my mouth and the function of chewing. Oh how I miss it! However, the positive is that as my body feels cleaner so does my spiritual life. Much of the clutter that was there before has been removed and there is a desire to keep it removed. What clutter is in your life? Should you take a break from the clutter or remove it permananently? Think about it.

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Monday, January 4, 2010

Fast: Day 4

Continuing on. The hunger pains don't really hit me much anymore. In fact, when I do drink my juice, sometimes I have difficulty finishing it. Time spent with the Lord has been good in between normal work day things. I must profess that I don't feel as though the Lord is really speaking to me about anything today. And that brings me to my point of topic...

Sometimes we need to spend time with God understanding that we may not get a "word" or some special "revelation". Rather, we should enjoy just the spending time. I must admit that in my own life it is difficult for me to just "spend time" with others. I always feel that there has to be some kind of purpose, even if I don't know what the purpose is going into the time spending. What I need to learn is that time spent with God is very good even if something new hasn't come to me. Rather, I can take joy in the silence and enjoy that I'm improving my relationship with him. Today, I would encourage you to not seek answers so much as to just spend time in worship before Him.

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Sunday, January 3, 2010

Week of Fasting

From January 1-7th the Bethel Community has been fasting and praying. We are doing this to grow closer to our Lord and also put us in an excellent position to hear from him regarding major decisions. Today, is January 3rd. Three whole days and we have already had so many blessings take place because of this. Mostly, God's message to all of us has focused on love and obedience. We obey when we follow the two great commands to love God with everything we and to love others. Jesus adds to love just as He has loved us. Sort of takes the sting out of obedience, doesn't it? We are commanded to love so that we understand what it means to be loved. What a beautiful circle produced by God that we gain understanding from. I will have more updates later in the week. Today's service was excellent and flowed quite nicely with all who had things to say. May we continue on!

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